The Man Who Saved My Soul
Random House, 2004
Father Joe, however, is a different undertaking altogether. The subtitle suggests the book is about the priest whom Hendra credits with ultimately leading him to the truth of the Catholic Church. The problem, however, is that before Hendra truly found the church he badly lost his way. In and of itself, that’s not uncommon – we’re all of us sinners and many of the children of the 60’s and 70’s have their own stories of getting off track before eventually reverting to the church. Heck, St. Augustine has the same story!
This issue here, though, is Hendra spends a little too much time relaying how bad his life was and not enough time on Father Joe. Obviously, the intent is to let the reader know just how important Father Joe’s influence was by showing just how low Hendra had sunk. It’s a solid writing device, but Hendra overdoes it. The same effect could have been achieved with a lot less detail and name-dropping...and more Father Joe. The only saving grace is that Hendra succeeds amazingly well at making himself completely unlikable, which in fact does work quite well as a contrast next to the very likable picture he paints of Father Joe.
The wise priest at Quarr Abbey whom Hendra meets as a teenager is the quintessential embodiment of the sower of seeds Paul mentions in his first letter to the Corinthians (chap. 3, verses 6-9); Father Joe is planting and watering, but he’s wise enough to stand back and let God do the work in His own time and according to His own plan. Over the course of decades, Father Joe patiently shares and models God’s love for Hendra. Unfortunately, the encounters during Hendra’s wandering years are few, which may explain why he spends more time on himself than on Father Joe: it doesn’t sound like he saw the priest that much.
Whether telling the story of his journey away from the church or telling the story of his relationship with Father Joe, there can be no doubt that Hendra is a gifted story-teller and writer. The narrative pulls one along, anxious for the outcome of the current conflict and eager for the next turn of events. It’s a not a book one is likely to set down and forget to pick back up, if for no other reason than the hope that the next pages will bring a little more Father Joe. And even though the book is a lot more Tony Hendra than Father Joe, a little Father Joe goes a long way.

